Privileges come with responsibility

Privileges come with responsibility, so it is inherently bullshit for the saying "have it all" to exist. There is no way one can have control over everything in their life and have equilibrium at all times. If you feel yourself struggling because you "don't have it all" or feel like you aren't perfect, do yourself the incredible favor of not holding yourself to those standards (of people who have abundant money, staff, fame, etc. and APPEAR a certain way.) Don't forget that whenever we want something additional in our lives, you have to sacrifice something for it, whether it's time or space or money.